∞ Serendipity

lol at my attempt to be an "authentic" blogger ♡ ♥♡ ♥ Hello beautiful ~ I'm Doyin and this is my electronic diary =) My thoughts and daily ramblings... ** I can't follow on this blog** My main blog =)
Home /Bonjour ~/ Index

When that certain person sends you a text first


21 hours ago with 1 note

This year I’ve truly worn some lovely natural hairstyles and the mirror will say “yaaassss you treating yo self” but the phone will say “lol who are you? Not today boo” so I couldn’t make a set of images showing my style progression through the year :(

I seriously need to start driving, get a job, and buy camera ughghghgh

6 days ago with 3 notes

Saw a comment on some article a while ago and I began to ponder…Ever notice how most of the people in the black community that still bother with that “light skin is better than dark skin” mentality and take it up to the Internet to express their views, (even though we are in 2014, come on you guys really need to grow up (just call yourself black, that’s what you are to everyone anyway)) especially the guys, are either:

a.) Unattractive/not appealing to the girls/guys they’re putting down anyway

b.) Living their life in the struggle with no effort to better themselves

c.) Not as educated as they could be/don’t try to get educated

d.) Usually all the above

Growing up, I’ve actually came across people like this (mostly ignorant teens).

I mean all through middle school I began to notice how lighter skinned females would be portrayed in the media (don’t even get me started on “hip hop” music videos) and I wondered why some of them weren’t as dark as me or even my Indian friend who was a medium brown complexion. 

I don’t even remember my main reason for bringing this up…

Just to voice my annoyance/semi-shock that there are still people doing that dark skin-light skin debate now with memes to play around -___-

and the fact that they’re in my age group means that the lesson of self love isn’t being taught to everyone…wonder how the next generation will turn out…

6 days ago with 2 notes

African parents the type to be mad at you for a few days but still expect you to happily greet them in the morning like they haven’t done you wrong, lord have mercy on my lack of patience. Coming at me with the “Ah-ah you cannot greet?”early in the morning after you chose to ignore me for the past 24 hours, lucky I’m not a certain type of American or you’d know the business (and I would be resting in peace).

1 week ago with 1 note

Been natural my whole life but my hair has never passed my armpits at most…

1 week ago with 2 notes

You know what I’m in the mood for? A television show with interracial or intercultural marriages. I wanna see a show solely focus on two people from different cultural backgrounds getting married or even different ethnical backgrounds (don’t act like Northern and Western Africans are the same thing).
It’d be interesting to see the struggle that may occur just because of the cultural differences, family, career goals, friends, etc. Just don’t feature the people getting married for selfish reasons, people truly in love should be documented! Kinda like the bridezilla show type set up minus the extreme betchiness.
I will always be here for this, but maybe this would be too good for the crap they air nowadays…

1 week ago with 16 notes


1 week ago with 0 notes

Since we honestly can’t always control how or even when we die, especially in today’s time. My advice? Is to never hold a grudge, don’t be in a constant state of bitterness, love more than you hurt, so if you unexpectedly have to face the end, you’ll know that your heart will be on a lighter note.

1 week ago with 0 notes

I’ve really been thinking these days and my views have once again changed, or let’s say I’ve been enlightened. 

I’ve begun(began?) to think about “nudes” and their exposure to the general public, and how 90% of the time, if it’s a female, she’ll be ridiculed to some degree and called a “whore”, “slut”, or even “easy” by irrelevants. 

Now I wonder…why is she a whore or slut if she isn’t even having sex? She could be a virgin for all you know and you’re accusing her of having multiple sexual partners? Okay…

Secondly why is it taboo for someone to reveal themselves on social media?(and by taboo I mean, why will they receive negative reactions?)

Everyone has seen their selves naked and everyone had most likely taken health class so they should have an idea about the opposite sex’s naked body, but why is it okay to insult someone who’s body may be accidentally revealed to the public?

I realize that it’s normally children on the Internet that poke fun and call names but I don’t think those exposed people should be looked down upon.

The human body is simply beautiful externally and internally(the processes it goes through to keep you alive) in it’s various forms and sizes.

Oh wow this person has breasts…hold on areolas, and oh wait-nipples too?!! How can that be!!!!! 

Some cultures like those of Africa walk around bare chested all their lives and they aren’t seen as lesser beings among their selves.

Same goes for “pussy” and butt? pictures…I honestly don’t get bum but whatever…

I think it’s stupid to call someone names just because of a nude you may had seen of them. Especially girls who call other girls whores,sluts, or other things.

If the girl hasn’t been of any harm to you in any way, shape, and or form, you shouldn’t be badmouthing her you basic bum.

Girls that see other girls’s nudes unexpectedly should either restrain from commenting or condemn hurtful comments that may be directed at the girl by others.

After all girls supporting girls is one of the greatest things that could ever happen in this day and age!

I don’t know what to say about bad mouthing guys…just shut up, the guys that expose girls already are assholes, the world doesn’t need any more of your kind.

If you want to take that topless photo ‘cuz you feel like your body is all that, then take that photo gurrrrl! You have the right to feel good about yourself and no one has the right to take that away from you!

I mean guys do it all the time right?

(This calm thinking doesn’t apply to exposed girls that had been previously bad mouthing others and talking shid, just don’t pay their image any mind, they only want attention after all)

1 week ago with 0 notes

*Azontos down my wedding aisle*

1 week ago with 8 notes

Upset another guy comrade by telling him not to think about me so much….I really feel bad…maybe I should had said something else x(
All he said was , “Nevermind”

2 weeks ago with 0 notes

lesson of the day before I go to sleep,
If you really want someone to respond to you, ask them, “Why are you mad at me?”
but it only works if you’ve done nothing wrong and they’ve been busy/ignoring you by their own choice lol
So he wasn’t responding because he was busy with his business stuff, starting a business on your own at a young age can be really challenging so I applaud his efforts.

2 weeks ago with 0 notes

Guess Germany’s team was pretty good this year…good for them ~

2 weeks ago with 1 note

*gasp* He just read the message that I sent him like three days ago but he’s still not replying 😒
Last time he ignored me for 4 days but I still responded and he had a good reason, a couple weeks is too damn unacceptable 😤😤
He better be actively fighting the social justice system or high unjust authority figures cuz I don’t have time for this 😧

2 weeks ago with 0 notes

I can’t understand how a woman can go through 8 or 9 months of pregnancy pains and struggles to give birth to a child that’ll eventually disrespect them. I mean I used to be against physical punishment but seeing how kids are acting nowadays imma let them know who their maker is. Try to swing on me once and you’ll be searching for a new home in a minute shiiiid I’m not gonna get stretch marks, saggy boobs, and hella weight gain for this kind of disrespect.

3 weeks ago with 0 notes

Adventure Time - BMO